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Your memoir is also your family's biography, and nobody asked them. Siblings, exes, parents.
What, if anything, do you owe them?

Nishant Kumar
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Where memory ends and craft begins. We read memoir and argue about how much invention it can hold before it becomes something else. This is a Chaptra house club — set up and moderated by us to get the conversation going. Open to everyone; jump in anywhere.
Your memoir is also your family's biography, and nobody asked them. Siblings, exes, parents.
What, if anything, do you owe them?
Book Desk: the practical standard a lot of memoirists use is that you can write about anyone who acted on you, but the further you go from your own experience the less right you have to narrate theirs.