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The Happy Hooker

Written by Xaviera Hollander

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308 pages, about 6 hours of reading

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How did you first learn about sex? If you grew up in the 1970s, it may have been from a gleefully lusty tour guide named Xaviera Hollander In the late 1960s -- that era of sexual chaos, when Playboy Clubs and love-ins were competing for national attention -- a beautiful, intelligent young Dutch secretary named Xaviera de Vries moved to New York, grew swiftly tired of her desk job . . . and soon became the most visible and glamorous madam the city had ever seen. As Xaviera Hollander, she published a shockingly candid account of her life behind the brothel door. The Happy Hooker shot straight to the top of the bestseller lists, sold more than fifteen million copies, and made this enterprising young woman an international phenomenon. Thirty years later, these delightfully explicit tales of the '60s and '70s swingers' scene -- including countless jaw-dropping stories of lesbianism, bondage, fetishism, and more -- remain as titillating as ever, charged with the mix of shrewd observation and uninhibited appetite that made Hollander an irresistible storyteller. The Happy Hooker is a classic: the world's greatest book on the world's oldest profession.

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  • about 8 hours
  • intermediate
  • humorous
  • candid
  • provocative

Xaviera Hollander's "The Happy Hooker" is a groundbreaking autobiographical account detailing her journey from a seemingly conventional Dutch secretary to becoming New York City's most famous madam during the late 1960s and early 1970s. Published in 1971, the book offers a shockingly candid and often humorous look into the world of high-end prostitution, challenging societal norms and hypocrisies surrounding sex. Hollander's narrative chronicles her personal experiences with various clients and colleagues, exploring themes of sexual freedom, female agency, and the commercialization of desire. It became a cultural phenomenon, selling millions of copies and cementing her status as an international symbol of the sexual revolution.

"I had simply found my calling: to bring happiness, in my own way, to those who could afford it."

Key themes

Sexual Liberation and Freedom
The book champions the idea of sexual freedom as a fundamental human right, particularly for women. Hollander's narrative explores how she found personal and financial independence through embracing her sexuality and providing sexual services, positioning it as a form of empowerment rather than degradation. She critiques societal repression and advocates for open expression of desire.
Societal Hypocrisy
A pervasive theme is Hollander's critique of the hypocrisy within society, particularly regarding sex and morality. She exposes how many of the same 'respectable' individuals who publicly condemn prostitution are her most frequent clients, highlighting a fundamental disconnect between public morality and private desires. She argues that society benefits from sex work while simultaneously shaming and criminalizing it.
Female Agency and Entrepreneurship
Hollander presents herself not as a victim, but as a shrewd businesswoman and an agent of her own destiny. Her journey from employee to madam illustrates a powerful narrative of female entrepreneurship and self-determination within a male-dominated industry. She emphasizes her control over her body, her business, and her choices, challenging the traditional passive role assigned to women in society.

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