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Status Single

Written by Sreemoyee Piu Kundu

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262 pages, about 5 hours of reading

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Marriage. It’s the obvious path for every girl in India. It’s supposed to define us, shape us and give meaning to our life. But does it, really? Figures show that nearly 74.1 million women in India are either divorced, separated, widowed or have never been married. And the number is on the rise. In what promises to be a path-breaking work on female identity, Sreemoyee Piu Kundu, a proud-to-be-single woman herself, spills the beans on what it is like being over 30 and unattached in India, through her own compelling story and the chequered lives and journeys of nearly 3,000 urban single Indian women from all walks of life. Women, whether single by choice or circumstance, are under scathing societal pressure, invasive scrutiny and pervasive criticism. Be it the difficulty in renting an apartment, being character-assassinated by your gynaecologist, or being slut- shamed as having slept your way to the top, even when you’re successful professionally, a single woman’s life choices are the easiest to dissect. From one of the most powerful voices in contemporary Indian writing, comes a passionate narrative of grit and gumption, anger and loneliness and the daily struggle of being single in a country where the highest validation of your gender remains marriage and motherhood. Fiercely honest and painfully vulnerable, Status Single is a book that every woman and man—single or otherwise—must read.

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  • about 8 hours
  • intermediate
  • Empowering
  • Challenging
  • Reflective

Sreemoyee Piu Kundu's 'Status Single' is a powerful, path-breaking exploration of what it means to be an unmarried woman over 30 in contemporary India. Challenging the entrenched societal narrative that defines female identity through marriage and motherhood, the book delves into the pervasive scrutiny, criticism, and discrimination faced by single women across various aspects of life. Through Kundu's own candid memoir and the compelling testimonies of nearly 3,000 urban single Indian women, it illuminates the daily struggles, the anger, the loneliness, and the fierce resilience required to navigate a society obsessed with marital status. The book serves as a vital voice for those living outside traditional norms, advocating for autonomy and self-definition in a culturally conservative landscape. It is a passionate call for empathy and understanding, urging both women and men to confront deeply ingrained prejudices.

Marriage. It’s the obvious path for every girl in India. It’s supposed to define us, shape us and give meaning to our life. But does it, really?

Key themes

Societal Pressure and Expectations (Marriage & Motherhood)
This is the foundational theme, exploring how Indian society overwhelmingly dictates marriage and motherhood as the primary, if not sole, validation for women. The book details the relentless pressure from family, peers, and institutions to conform to these traditional roles, and the negative consequences for those who deviate.
Female Identity and Autonomy
The book passionately argues for women's right to self-definition and autonomy, independent of their marital status. It explores how single women forge their identities, find meaning, and pursue fulfillment in the face of external pressures, celebrating their choices and resilience.
Stigma and Discrimination
This theme details the tangible and intangible forms of discrimination and stigma experienced by single women. It covers everyday challenges like housing discrimination, professional prejudice (slut-shaming), and even the invasive judgment from medical professionals, illustrating how single status makes women vulnerable.

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