She Comes First
Written by Ian Kerner
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This work by Ian Kerner offers readers a unique literary experience. The narrative explores themes of self-help.
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- about 4 hours
- beginner
- Informative
- Empowering
- Practical
Ian Kerner's 'She Comes First' is a groundbreaking and practical guide dedicated to demystifying the female orgasm and empowering men to prioritize their partners' pleasure. Championing oral sex as the cornerstone of a fulfilling sexual life, the book combines witty prose with well-researched anatomical information and step-by-step techniques. Kerner argues for closing the 'sex gap' by fostering a new sexual paradigm built on shared pleasure, intimacy, respect, and contentment. It serves as an accessible resource for both beginners and experienced lovers seeking to enhance their sexual repertoire and deepen their connections.
“Did you know that the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings, twice as many as the penis?”
Key themes
- Female Sexual Pleasure and Orgasm
- This is the central theme, exploring the mechanics, importance, and facilitation of female orgasm, particularly through cunnilingus. The book aims to educate and empower readers to prioritize and achieve this consistently.
- Sexual Equality and Respect
- The book advocates for a 'level playing field' in sexual pleasure, addressing the historical imbalance where male pleasure often takes precedence. It frames the act of giving pleasure as an act of respect and mutual consideration.
- Intimacy and Connection
- Beyond the physical act, the book emphasizes that prioritizing a partner's pleasure fosters deeper emotional intimacy, trust, and connection within a relationship. Shared pleasure is presented as a pathway to greater contentment.
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What does Kerner mean by the 'sex gap,' and how relevant is this concept in contemporary relationships?
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