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Free to Be Human

Written by Eugene Kennedy

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148 pages, about 3 hours of reading

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"...will help you cope with the pain of being human and revel in the joy of it" --Ann Landers With the same understanding and compassionate insights that have made his Pain of Being Human and Joy of Being Human bestselling books, Eugene Kennedy here discusses the inner barricades that people erect in their life and how certain attitudes can impede our self-realization and happiness. "We miss the human situation when we try to break away from it," he writes, adding that we must learn to accept certain limitations and human imperfections as we search for inner freedom and peace. These essays cover a wide range of situations that comprise the fabric of all human life: dealing with anger, impatience, insecurity, obsessions, loss, and death. We are helped here in seeing the meaning beneath what may appear as only a jumble of everyday events. In facilitating our greater self-understanding and self-acceptance, Kennedy helps pave the way for our handling the challenges and problems inherent in all our other relationships. The key to our success, he advises, is "our readiness to enter into our experience--to suffer it as well as to celebrate it--and always to call it by its right name." This is a helpful and practical book that gives its readers a chance to pause, reflect, and get a renewed perspective on life.

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  • about 8 hours
  • intermediate
  • uplifting
  • reflective
  • compassionate

Eugene Kennedy's "Free to Be Human" serves as a compassionate guide for navigating the complexities of human existence, encouraging readers to embrace both its inherent joys and pains. Building on his previous bestsellers, the book comprises insightful essays that address the internal barriers individuals often erect, hindering their self-realization and happiness. Kennedy posits that true inner freedom stems not from escaping the human condition, but from accepting its limitations and imperfections. Through reflections on common experiences like anger, loss, and insecurity, the book aims to foster greater self-understanding and self-acceptance, ultimately improving one's relationships and perspective on life.

“"...will help you cope with the pain of being human and revel in the joy of it"”

Key themes

Self-Acceptance and Imperfection
This theme is central to Kennedy's philosophy, arguing that true inner freedom and happiness are not found by trying to escape or deny human limitations and flaws, but by acknowledging and integrating them. He suggests that struggling against our inherent imperfections only leads to more pain, whereas acceptance paves the way for peace and self-realization.
The Duality of Human Experience (Pain and Joy)
Kennedy emphasizes that pain and joy are not opposing forces to be compartmentalized, but rather intertwined aspects of the human condition. He encourages readers to 'cope with the pain of being human and revel in the joy of it,' suggesting a holistic engagement with all emotions and experiences, rather than selectively pursuing only happiness or avoiding suffering.
Overcoming Inner Barricades to Self-Realization
Kennedy identifies specific attitudes and emotional states—such as anger, impatience, insecurity, obsessions, loss, and death—as 'inner barricades' that prevent individuals from achieving self-realization and happiness. The book explores how understanding and addressing these internal obstacles, rather than letting them control us, is crucial for personal growth and inner freedom.

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