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Everything You Always Wanted to Know about Sex

Everything You Always Wanted to Know about Sex

Written by David Roben

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373 pages, about 7 hours of reading

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This work by David Roben offers readers a unique literary experience. The narrative explores themes of sex.

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  • about 8 hours
  • intermediate
  • informative
  • candid
  • clinical

David Reuben's "Everything You Always Wanted to Know about Sex But Were Afraid to Ask" (assuming the user refers to the widely known work by David Reuben, despite the slight title and author variation) is a groundbreaking and controversial non-fiction sex manual first published in 1969. It systematically addresses a vast array of sexual topics, from anatomy and intercourse to dysfunction and various sexual behaviors, in a frank, question-and-answer format. The book aimed to demystify sex for a mass audience, challenging prevailing societal taboos and providing accessible, albeit often clinical and sometimes judgmental, information during a pivotal era of sexual liberation. Its directness and comprehensive scope made it a massive bestseller, sparking both widespread acclaim and significant criticism.

"The greatest danger in sex is ignorance."

Key themes

Sexual Education and Demystification
The central theme is the belief that comprehensive, frank information about sex can dispel myths, reduce anxiety, and promote healthier sexual lives. The book aims to educate a public largely uninformed due to societal taboos and inadequate schooling.
Societal Taboos and Repression
The book implicitly and explicitly critiques the societal repression of sexual topics, highlighting how this repression leads to ignorance, fear, and dysfunction. It seeks to break down barriers to open discussion.
Medicalization of Sexuality
Reuben approaches sexuality primarily through a medical and psychological lens, often framing sexual behaviors and dysfunctions as conditions that can be understood, diagnosed, and sometimes 'treated' from a clinical perspective. This reflects the prevailing scientific paradigm of his era.

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