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1959: A Love Story

Written by Asha Anand

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212 pages, about 4 hours of reading

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This true story of unconditional love between a Christian nurse from Kerala and a Hindu doctor from Punjab who got married in 1959 against much opposition, is in fact a tribute to joint and extended families scattered all over the globe. Sooraj Barjatya, the filmmaker writes in the Prologue for the book that “Each chapter makes you want to go home, plan a family dinner, sit and laugh together.” In her Foreword, Dr. Indu Shahani, the Dean of the Indian School of Management and Entrepreneurship and former Principal of the H.R. College of Commerce and Economics in Mumbai refers to the young couple and says, “The fulfilment they gave to each other flowed out of them to their families, friends, neighbours and patients and created ever-widening circles of happiness.” Young people in love can learn from the book how to win their parents and others against their alliance for religious or other reasons. The young as well as old generations will find the book helpful to enjoy and stay up together in a joint family, in spite of space or other constraints. Do read the chapter ‘Servants or Helpers’ about those who enjoyed working for the author. She preferred to use the term ‘Helpers’ and has quite a few ‘Friends’ whom she helped to a great extent to come up in life. Those fond of pets will find the chapter ‘Our Life with our Dogs’, very touching. The chapter ‘Supporting Raj’ describes how spouses can support each other for having a happy and purposeful life.

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  • about 8 hours
  • intermediate
  • uplifting
  • heartwarming
  • inspirational

Asha Anand's "1959: A Love Story" is a heartwarming true account of an interfaith marriage between a Christian nurse from Kerala and a Hindu doctor from Punjab, who defied societal opposition in 1959 to build a life founded on unconditional love. More than just a romantic saga, the book serves as a profound tribute to the enduring strength and joy found in joint and extended families, advocating for a holistic approach to relationships that extends to friends, neighbors, and even domestic helpers. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, it offers practical lessons on fostering marital harmony, navigating familial challenges, and cultivating a compassionate community, inspiring readers of all generations to cherish their connections and build fulfilling lives together.

““Each chapter makes you want to go home, plan a family dinner, sit and laugh together.” - Sooraj Barjatya, Filmmaker (from the Prologue)”

Key themes

Unconditional Love and Interfaith Harmony
The central theme, exploring how the love between the Christian nurse and Hindu doctor transcends religious and cultural barriers. It showcases their determination to marry against societal opposition in 1959, establishing a foundation of acceptance and mutual respect that defines their life together and inspires others.
The Strength and Joy of Joint/Extended Families
The book explicitly celebrates the value of joint and extended families, portraying them not as a constraint but as a source of immense support, laughter, and happiness. It challenges individualistic notions by demonstrating how collective living, despite challenges, can lead to a more enriched life.
Compassion, Empathy, and Inclusive Community
This theme highlights the importance of treating all individuals with respect and kindness, extending beyond the immediate family to domestic helpers, friends, and even pets. It advocates for an inclusive community where everyone is valued and supported to 'come up in life'.

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